The number one sure way to find a Thai girlfriend sometimes before even landing in Thailand is to visit the Thai Friendly dating site. From talking with all my friends, we all agree this is by far the best dating website in Thailand and a good choice to find a Thai girlfriend, or to find a girl who’s up for no strings attached fun, without any exchange of money.
The west is still coming to grips with “online dating”, some people still consider these websites as taboo, while in Thailand it’s the complete opposite. Many girls are working long hours so they don’t have the time to socialize, they find using Thai Friendly a great way to find relationships of all kinds.
The average work day can last as long as 10-12 hours for a Thai girl, then using public transport to get back home, that’s another 1-2 hours.If you have ever been to Thailand, you know how bad public transport is, so 10-12 hours work with another 1-2 hours of commuting to work and you see why most Thai girls use online dating sites to find partners and casual one night stands.
Only the rich Thai girls have time to socialize most nights, and even then, its hard for them to do that.
You must also remember that the average Thai doesn’t have much disposable income, so visiting bars and clubs won’t be on the agenda for them every week. There is a whole un-tapped market currently on these dating sites, Thai friendly being the most popular and successful.
Thai friendly dating site has all types of girls, and they do offer an option to block messages from certain people such as ladyboys if they are not your cup of tea. I also know (and my friends agree) that out of all the Thai dating sites, Thai friendly has the lowest amount of sex workers and most amount of genuine Thai girls to chat with.
If you are ever unsure you can always ask the girl you’re chatting with, but don’t just come right out and and ask them if they are a Thai bar girl, because that will annoy them greatly. Say something along the lines of :
I am sorry to ask this, because I think you’re not, but are you a Bar girl? I only ask because the last person didn’t tell me, until we met in person. I am new to Thailand so I am still trying to understand everything, sorry for asking you like this.
But like I said 99% of the girls on Thai friendly are just your average Thai girl, its not even worth worrying about, but I thought I would mention it in case anybody was wondering.
This website is by far the easiest place to find a Thai girlfriend or get laid without even having to leave your laptop. This is talking from my own personal experience and 8 western friends who all have found a Thai Girlfriend using this site. You just need white skin or be from a western speaking country.
Pro tip: You need to be careful when browsing girls pictures, as some will be filtered using Instagram or taken at funny angles to hide how fat/spotty/dark they are. It is not uncommon for people to meet up for a date only to find the girl 10lbs has a higher weight and nothing like she was in the pictures.
When this happens you just got “Thai friendly’d”, and what you do is laugh it off and chalk it up as experience, or maybe send me a read submission of the story! This is quite rare but you should always ask the girl for more pictures or have a quick chat on Skype video to see if she is hiding something.
How do I know if my Thai girlfriend really likes me or is after something?
This question has too many variables to give you any kind of answer, but if you are after a serious Thai girlfriend who you want a future with, don’t ever bring up the topic of money. Don’t say how much money you have, how much you earn, I would even go as far to say don’t spend money around her on anything but cheap food for the first few weeks. From this guess how she is viewing it all, does she care? Or is she just happy to be with you?
You must remember that the average Thai earns around $250-$350 a month, so that’s why many look for a western guy to get them out of this situation, you just need to play your hand with caution. Several of my friends in Bangkok have Thai girlfriends, who I can tell are not after their money, don’t believe all the stereotypes on the Internet, Thai girls are not always after your money.
Summary
Either way, life is a game, going to Thailand is no different, all you can do is role the dice and see what the outcome is. So good luck on finding your Thai Girlfriend in Bangkok or no-strings attached fun using the Thai friendly dating site, I know for a fact you won’t be disappointed!